Divorce
is always a tricky subject to talk about. People get divorced for so many
different reasons and that it is hard to pinpoint why so may people get divorced.
Sometimes it is just not what is right for that specific couple. Some people
get divorced because they rushed into things and never sat down and truly
thought about what they were doing and who they were marrying. Some people wait
a little longer to get divorced because they think they can work through it or
they have kids thinking it will fix their marriage when all it does is actually
make it worse. People have kids and then get divorced and eventually remarry
somebody else and then that creates blending families.
Blending
families can sometimes work out really well but then sometimes there is tension
between the kids because they aren’t actual biological sibling, but they are living
together under the same roof. Have this kind of families can be pretty
difficult. Knowing what you are doing before creating these types of families
is best. Blended families can be such a great thing but only under the right
mindset. If the parents think about how they can blend these families together before
they do it and talk to the kids before they make a decision in is much more
likely to run smoother and blend easier.
I
have seen a lot of kids my age go through divorces with there parents and it is
really hard to watch. You can see the kid start to blame themselves and they
become depressed because they don’t understand why their parents can’t just stay
together. While some kids already saw a divorce coming so although they are sad,
they knew that it couldn’t continue being the way it was. When a couple divorces
when they have kids, it is important to talk about how they can make it run as
smoothly as possible for the kid. When parents start to fight over their children,
they make it about themselves when they need to be thinking who would be better
for the kid to live with full time or where can the kids go to school.
Sometimes
divorce is inevitable but in the long run the way to deal with what will happen
after the divorce is the biggest part. Being angry and childish will make it so
you don’t accomplish anything. Same with the blended families if you think
about how blending each family will affect the children and how life will work
once you blend the family then it is more likely to work out and be more successful.
